BROTHERS

Brothers

From small secret keeper

to big whistle blower

From mutual adore

to fierce third world war

From inventing effective silly plans

to executing mission impossible plans

From war of words

to making faces absurd

From sharing of clothes
to bragging what one owns
From quick-witted compose
to peculiar funny transpose
From ganged up fight
to exhibiting all one's might
Fabricating secret language
that only we can acknowledge
Pioneers of high-risk venture
escorting to examination centre
Guidance of mentor expert
and unmatched ally stalwart
Parading hegemonic gesticuation
to score on each possession
Nagging and teasing to the core
never let you slumber with bore
Childhood arch-rival
to irreplaceable companion vital
They are brothers
your all weather lovers
and sweet devil under-covers!

Le retour!

Le retour!

How could life go easy on her

without unanticipated moments to occur

Every time life unfolds a new mystery

revisiting the same olden history

Where mistakes are the new blunder

that is something not to wonder

All past lessons were unlearned

caution and vigilance were adjourned

A familiar knock at the door

and someone's out of blue retour

to settle unsettled score

a heartbreak guaranteed to assure

A hero of her fairy tale

else a villain in secrecy veil

Being an experienced captain

to foretell the events that would happen

Instead rolled out a welcome wagon

to venture consistent old memories sadden

No indignation complaint this time

she was the one to be condemned for repeated crime

A STUPID who knew the truth

still believed in misleading innuendos and untruth!

Maturity

Maturity

Maturity is not an instinctive state

it is a distinguishing trait.
Maturity is not a signature key of adulthood
as one can never wants to transcend childhood
Maturity seldom co-relates with age
as they can be on different page.
Maturity is not being judgemental
instead analysing deep fundamental
Maturity is not about breaking bad
instead dealing with adversities like a dad
Maturity is not to strive for quintessence
instead acknowledging one's real essence.
Maturity is when you don't hold grudge
and vouchsafe forgiveness way too much
Maturity is when you can keep cool
without raising a ruckus pool
Maturity is providing complement
not making oneself more opulent
Maturity is ready to undergo alteration
without engaging in meritless confrontation
Maturity is when you're able to claim responsibility
with utmost liability
Maturity is when you treat others with civility and respect
this is how you're a relationship architect
Maturity is all about self-devotion and sobriety
not about overblown customs of society.

The Rendezvous

The Rendezvous

They met for the first time

at their love prime

It's their first rendezvous

yet had the feeling of déjà vu

A smile of cheerfulness

with the blend of nervousness

A lot to talk

but anxiety was the stumbling block

A long walk precise

to break the ice
Petty shy was kept at bay
and delighted laughter was exceeding highway

As they talked and time flies

that moment when they were lost in each other eyes
Getting closer
wanted to propose her
And words led astray
romantic expedition was halted halfway
They whispered a fond adieu
loving kiss was still a due
The rendezvous was in days of yore
now they long to see each other like never before
Souvenired memories
to fall into long past reveries.

#Sandesh2Soldiers

#Sandesh2Soldiers

A sandesh to incredible gallant warriors

who has always made our country glorious.

A sandesh to epitome of valor and courage

who always inspire and encourage.

A sandesh to our real life heroes

to whom this whole nation owes.

A sandesh to altruistic and resolute fighters

who holds our security tighter.

A sandesh to those who are always at work

who scare off adversity with great torque.

A sandesh to those in 'distinctive' uniform

who thrash the enemies like thunderstorm.

A sandesh to one-in-zillions

from 1.2 Billions.

*The whole nation is with you people. Because of you guys, we are celebrating festivals at our home peacefully. We would like to acknowledge our debts to you. They are non-payable debts. Hats-off to your selfless deeds. Happy Deepawali. 

JAI HIND! 

~1.2 Billions Proud Indians!

"The Ugly Truth"

Who says that people change?

People never change,

neither like mutant virus

nor like shares of stock exchange.

People never change,

neither like moments

nor like inflationary range.

They remain the same,

they never change

just like a picture frame.

It's just their charming untruth mask wear off,

and the curtain from the drama lifts-off.

When the game of hypocrisy comes to an end

when they cannot anymore pretend.

When they are tired of faking themselves

And they are back to their true selves

People are found in variety of hues

the way in which you will be screwed.

People come to you when they need you

and you will be cooked like hot stew.

They are the only true well-wisher

and God's own messenger.

They are the perfect guest just like a parasite

And are the only one to be blamed for your pathetic plight.

These people are your own close friends

who entrap you in dead-end.

This is the ugly truth

Which even fails a brilliant sleuth!

The Conditional Probability

Let A and B are two events, the probability of success of A provided that B has already occurred is denoted as-  P(A/B)

                                                      P(A/B)=n(A∩B)/n(B) 

• n(A∩B)=number of occurrences of A and B together.
• n(B)=number of occurrences of B.

No, no, no. I am not going to elaborate about the mathematical conditional probability. Here, I am talking about the conditional probability which we often do in our life. Have you ever decided to do something provided that some other thing has happened before? Or have you planned to do something, only if you will do something else before? I guess, we all have done that. We all have put condition on our choices, in simplest term we can call this as similar to mathematical conditional probability.

Why we do like that? Why putting conditions on something we want to do, if we are willing to do it right now? Why is that detention? Perhaps, we wait for the right time to come. And what is that right time then? Right time could be when all the odds are in favour. Is it? Do we really aspire for perfect timing and perfect moment? People use to say that things will come to you at the right time, wait until then, have patience. Patience is key to success. What if you grew old and never got to do what you have planned for? What if your conditions were never met as you would have thought? What if when patience would become the synonym for a long unending sojourn? What to do then? Regret? Yes, only one thing left to do.

I have done a lot of conditional probability, every time I had put a prior condition to do something. Actually, I had lived on my own terms and conditions, many others would have done too. I had depended on the success of event B before going for the event A. But, neither I get success for event B nor I had done event A. Whose fault it was? Obviously, it was my fault, because I didn't strive much for the success of event B and so for the event A also. Well that's a lame excuse, totally rubbish, just a blame game.

We often presume that if we accomplish both the events then it will be more fun and it will totally worth it. But take this into consideration, without waiting for other event to get accomplished you opt for your longing event. This approach will give you more satiation than any other accomplishment.

I would like to suggest that just free yourself from ** Terms and conditions applied  notion. Don't overweigh yourself, let it loosened up. Do whatever you want to do, don't wait for the favourable condition to show up. Make the conditions propitious for yourself. Live your life fully. Welcome the things that come on the way, and enjoy it. Set your choices as an independent events, when occurrence of events will not depend on any other events.  

Opportunistic Politics

From print media to electronic and social media, all are painted with JNU issues, an obvious news of the month. In fact this has given a new job to the media people to flash this news in a dramatic way for which they are well known. Debate on "judicial killing" of Afzal Guru by the JNU students has triggered the controversy. The Constitution of India has bestowed upon us with fundamental rights. One of them is right to freedom, which includes freedom of speech, expression (Article 19), we exercise this right more and misuse it even more.  Why people make such arguable comments and they know that such comments will cause uproar in country. Perhaps this is what democracy called (to express oneself in easiest way, simply called as chutzpah!). Seemingly, they do this on purpose, few to express themselves and few to show themselves in top headlines. And few make it to opportunistic politics, they hit the iron when it is hot. Our so called renowned political leaders unleash their intellects. This is how blame game starts, everyone plays in defensive mode and no one take responsibility for anything. Any other issues will be converted into political issue. Such types of incidents can often be seen when any election (like assembly polls) is nearby. 

    One of the most eligible bachelor of our country and 'youth' icon, is well versed in opportunistic politics. Twice he went to show his solidarity and empathy to students of University of Hyderabad and made no delay in visiting JNU campus. Hopefully, he would have learnt something from the incident which happen in a college of Bangalore. 

    Since past six months India has been a place of happening events. Last month January, was superheated with the suicide of a Phd scholar of University of Hyderabad. How this case was conflagrated? Obviously, they again played the communal card, by invoking Dalit suppression and flagging off Hindutva Agenda. On one hand they talk about equality and egalitarian society and on other hand they discriminate society by pointing them as Dalit. This is wild farcical. Even some people consider PM as a culprit for such incidents so he should make an apology to the whole nation. And here, logic and rationality took a back seat.

    Dadri lynching on 28th Sep, 2015 shared the most of the headlines of October month. This event was artistically given the colour of communalism and a new mutant virus came to infect our tolerant citizens who accused growing intolerance in country. They returned their awards which were felicitated to them for their excellency in particular field by GoI.  Following this, some even had planned to evacuate their own motherland.  It is worth to note that all these events took place right before the Bihar assembly polls and after that all issues were shrouded afterwards. Again an example of opportunistic politics.

    All these cases are serving as varied agendas to Parliament logjam and not allowing to pass important bills like GST. Now the Budget Session is on target after successful disruption of Monsoon and Winter Sessions. If any issue arises it will give invitation to opportunistic politics, political war will start. Being a rhetoric will serve the purpose. These political leaders don't solve any problem instead they twist and turn them. With passing of time these issues will fade and new issues will come to debate. The upshot of such opportunistic politics is just waste of time. No one will judge you on the basis of your slogans, debates, speech, you will be rated on the basis of what you have done for the society, development of this country. We need critics of the government not defiant oppositions.

The Latest trend

Do you aware about the current culture of our Indian society? What are we following the most, or what we actually want and where are we going? You might have heard in the news that the most searched personality on Google in 2014 is Sunny Leone followed by PM Modi? Why this? I guess everyone knows Sunny Lenoe and none has any information about the recent SAARC summit agenda. Why Kim Kardashian nude pic went viral on social media and now she turned out to be the most followed person on instagram? Well, we all know her now, does everyone know, who is Indian Railway Minister? 

There are innumerable queue of such questions. We don't need answers for them, we all have the answers.
What we have to do is that just ponder over them carefully. Before that, I would like to spotlight few questions, here they go-

Why a movie must to have a coarse poster (better to call a pornographic poster) and an item song where almost unclothed sumptuous actress perform (rather call it as some sorts of poses/moves she make)? 

Why there is significant stats of porn watching per day in India?

Why every mobile has GB space for adult video but not for any devotional video?

Why novels of Chetan Bhagat are more sold as compare to Sachin Tendulkar's autobiography? 

Why there are more readers of Fifty Shades of Grey and fewer readers of any holy book? 

Why crime rates are going beyond the heights of Burj Khalifa? 

I don't quite understand how just a make out scene in movie or a make out story in novel prompt the people towards itself. It's seem similar to a solenoid coil  which produces strong magnetic field around its space and iron filings get attracted to it. And outcome of this would result into a blockbuster movie/the best seller novel. What if instead of an item song actress perform a classical dance? Well, no body will go to watch that movie. Or else you can take the example of internet posts/videos which have obscene images or start with the title like "...And the *** unhooked". All such posts have tremendous number of page visits/seen in contrast to other normal posts(like this post of mine). I don't know which trend we all are following and why following this path.

The answer for all those question is that we are now an extra-advanced society of 21st century. We are no more dogmatic now, we are liberals, we became so unbiased that we no more assess morality or ethics. We are totally blindfolded. Unfortunately, we have lost our perceptive vision and become mentally impotent to decide which is right or wrong for us.

All these give an advantage to the directors/authors/medias/websites.....and the list goes on. They know what the people want and they are making money from that. They are not at all concerned about its effect on the society. All these things give a sexual impulse and urge to gratify them end up in sexual harassment/assault. But whom to blame? To ourselves or to those who make us indulge in this downfall.

"Why we don't want a Girl child?"

    Well it's quite evident about the sex ratio and gender imbalance and we ain't unaware about these things. Why there are more males than females? We know the reasons behind this disparity (males and females in a population) especially in India. 

    There is majority of people who don't want and even don't wish to have a girl child. Why this? Why they don't want a girl child? Are the girls source of great worry and stress? In my opinion, probable answer could be YES! Yes, girls are onerous and difficult concern, they are burden of responsibilities. And what are those responsibilities? Since birth of a girl until she get married, there is a huge responsibility and a lot of pressure on parents; proper nourishing and caring should be provided so that she would grown up as an elegant, sophisticated and dignified lady.

["Once I asked my mom that what if I had a sister too? That would have great, isn't it? My mom was like, No! no, one is enough! I was totally astonished. Why my mom said like that? I enquired about this, then she told me that there is nothing wrong in having a girl child. But it require a lot of care, attention, devotion in nurturing of a girl child. And finally finding a right groom for her is a herculean task. I found all these points quite practical."]

    Firstly, One of the greatest responsibilities are searching a perfect groom for your girl and similarly a good family who can take care of your daughter the way you have done. After all girls are sweet hearts of their parents, thus their worry is legitimate.    

    You have to make sure that every step you take should be in accord with society. What society wants from a girl? Actually, there are certain norms and benchmarks a girl must fulfill. If they fail to fulfill any of the criterion, society is well set to point their finger at the girl's character, eventually society will accuse it on girl's parent.

     There is a long list or other way round, some standard scaling techniques are there which a girl has to qualify before getting married. Here it goes; A girl should be slim-trim, gori,sundar, shusheel, furthermore she should be a chef too! And it's literally funny, the way people search for qualities in girls. Ladki toh gaayen jaisi seedhi-saadi honi chahiye. Why girls should be like cows and why they forget that cow has horn too! Irrespective of boy's looks(whatsoever kind of sample he is), the girl must be beautiful! Here, intellect and talent of a girl is overlooked often. 

    Secondly, the most important reason is dowry. It's loathsome that such system is still prevailing in our society. There is tradition in our nasty society, the amount of money with you decides the status of the family(in-laws) you get for your daughter. Thus if you have a girl child, you have to save your money (obviously in surplus amount) for her marriage or you should be enough rich to get your daughter married and fulfill those series of umpteenth demands of groom family. Money is the ruler here too, it's a money game indeed.

    In fact, girl has been perceived as an equivalent synonym of being perfect; i.e., Girl=Perfection. Girl should be flawless, no err. She should be well mannered, sociable and cultured. That's fantastic!! And this is our society, what does it comprise of? We:The people, make this society, we are inseparable. These old customs of orthodox society has put shackles on us; they have made us hamstrung. We have to end this nefarious cycle. 

    Thus, these are the reasons why people don't want a girl child, they escape themselves from all these brutal metal torture.

     Leaving all aside, salute to all those parents who have a girl child/children and capable enough to nourish them. They all are the luckiest one; they are truly blessed. 

    A request to all those who don't want a girl child: Please acknowledge the fact that girls are not a burden, or a matter of serious concern. For having a girl child, you don't have to posses profuse money, girls will be the real treasure of your life. Girls are undeniably a beautiful creation of God. All you need is to make your girl enough efficient that she doesn't have to ask for anything from anyone, make her that much efficient, give her that potential. For this, just educate your daughter, nothing more you have to do.